What if the thing that scares you becomes boring ? 🥱
You logically know you can tackle your challenge, but your nervous system disagrees.
You can manifest, change your thought patterns, even do somatic exercises all you want — none will actually help you go through your upcoming challenge with ease if you haven’t FIRST desensitized your nervous system from that challenge.
When the body feels boredom, it feels safe.
We achieve nervous system safety only when the body truly understands we’re in a position of power.
When our subconscious mind can relax and let our present-day self lead the way.
NOT when we try to convince ourselves as hard as we can that we’re a winner or monitor every single “negative” thought or emotion.
Do you …
… agree with the idea of a boundary but actually going through with it makes my body tense up and panic?
… know you have skills for public speaking, but no matter how much you practice, you feel like you’ll throw up?
… feel like you’re sabotaging your wellness/healing journey with old patterns you want to break free of?
… believe showing up on video will help your marketing but your challenge with body image / fear of what people will think of you is holding back from posting that Reel?
If you feel like you logically know how to get through your challenge but your body is telling you it’s about to brace for impact, there is a clear disconnect between your brain and your body. You’re not desensitized, you’re ready for fight/flight/freeze/fawn.
I’ve helped hundreds of people stuck in old patterns feel the nervous system safety they need to get out of survival mode and feel bored by their challenge.
You can find success - whatever success means to you.
I’m Danik - let me tell you how Freeze mode used to run the show in my life.
From childhood to early adulthood, I would have AMAZING ideas, only to self-sabotage because my nervous system didn’t believe I truly had what it took to go through my challenges.
🥶 Freeze mode became my primary source of nervous system safety.
🫣 My subconscious mind made this association: if I don’t ruffle feathers, if I stay put, if I just keep doing what I’m doing now, I’ll stay safe.
From choreographies to the Spice Girls I never performed for my family …
… to playing small in my business because I couldn’t stand visibility and going against the current.
I had enough when I realized my Freeze mode was responsible for keeping me stuck in a self-sabotage cycle - all because it didn’t feel safe in my body to go for the unique ideas my mind was coming up with.
🗣️ No amount of positive self-talk/affirmations did the trick.
🧘♀️ No amount of body work prepared me to face my fears …
🧠 … until I realized I needed to achieve nervous system desensitization strategically in order to truly feel safe through my challenges. And bored.
Make Your Challenge Boring
Make Your Challenge Boring
Through nervous system desensitization with the help of EMDR-inspired tools for coaching, this program is unlike any other in the coaching world. You won’t just know you can move through your challenge — you’ll actually embody it.
Morgan Pommells, @morganpommells
“Every time I felt stuck or overwhelmed, Danik had the clarity and expertise to guide me. Whenever I’m ready to take bold, scary steps in my practice as a therapist and coach, Danik is the first person I turn to. As a result, my business wouldn’t be what it is today without her support.”
Emilie Avon-Green, @authentic_living_with_emilie
“It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business.”
EMDR-inspired coaching works for entrepreneurs, teachers and senior leadership in education, supervisors, cycle breaking parents, folks on wellness and reparenting journeys ✨
What you get from
Make Your Challenge Boring :
➡️ 1 FREE, no obligation 60-min coaching consult : together, we build your coaching plan so we know exactly what to tackle during your 1 Day Intensive (I never want to waste your precious time)
➡️ 1 Day Intensive : 4-6 hours of coaching in 1 day so you stay in your zone of genius and unlock what’s hidden in your nervous system in one sitting, followed by 1 week of support on WhatsApp (starts at $1997 with extended payment plans available)
➡️ 1 week of support on WhatsApp : Following the 1 Day Intensive, you have me in your back pocket for a whole week.
➡️ Access to the coaching replay for 3 months
✨ And fun surprises
Two 2-hour coaching sessions with 1 week WhatsApp access in between coaching calls
